Wife Affirmation Wednesday

What does this mean to you?

I can think of more examples than I would like to share about times when I have been unhappy in my marriage and blamed my husband for the feelings I felt. I thought for sure there was a direct correlation to what he would say or did and how I felt.

Then, one day we were having a discussion, a rather heated one, and he said to me, "you can't make me responsible for your happiness." I was blown by this statement until I sat down to think about what I heard him say. He was right! While I was happy to be with him, happy to be married, happy for the way he loved me. I still had the choice to be happy in spite of the challenging moments.

When you recognize your responsibility in your emotions, you allow yourself to make a choice in how you will respond to various situations around you. I guarantee your husband wants you to be happy, but if you are unhappy with any part of yourself, no matter what he does...you will still be unhappy. Today, make a new choice....HAPPINESS

Wife Affirmation Wednesday

What does this mean to you?

What does being a phenomenal wife mean to you? I guarantee that for each wife it will mean something different and that's okay. For one, it may mean being able to support your family emotionally. For another, it may mean self-care in order to be the best wife.

You have control over what being phenomenal looks like for you, but it starts with your understanding of your role as a wife and whether or not you fully embrace this role. 

When you are a phenomenal wife, you open the door for a phenomenal marriage. It is your ability to be extraordinary that will create an environment filled with love, trust and respect. Today, create your definition of being a phenomenal wife and share it on our facebook page or comment below.